Ahantu hamwe nibidukikije byuka bihumeka imbere mububiko bukonje bizagira ingaruka kumikorere yabyo. Mubisanzwe, umuyaga hafi yumuryango wububiko bukonje ukunze guhura nubukonje. Kubera ko ibidukikije biri kumuryango, umwuka ushyushye utembera hanze yumuryango iyo umuryango ufunguye, kandi iyo uhuye numufana, ubukonje nubukonje, cyangwa urubura, bizabaho. Nubwo umufana ashobora guhita ashyushya no gukonjesha mugihe gisanzwe, niba umuryango ufunguye kenshi, igihe cyo gufungura ni kirekire cyane, kandi umwanya numubare wumwuka ushushe winjira ni muremure, ingaruka zo guhagarika umufana ntabwo ari nziza. Kuberako igihe cyo guhagarika umufana kidashobora kuba kirekire, bitabaye ibyo igihe cyo gukonjesha kizaba kigufi, ingaruka zo gukonjesha ntizaba nziza, kandi ubushyuhe bwo kubika ntibushobora kwizerwa. Mu bubiko bumwe bukonje, kubera inzugi nyinshi, inshuro zo gufungura ni ndende cyane, igihe ni kirekire cyane, nta ngamba zo gukumira ku muryango, kandi nta rukuta rw’amacakubiri rwinjira mu muryango, ku buryo umwuka ukonje kandi ushyushye utembera hagati ndetse no hanze uhinduranya mu buryo butaziguye, kandi ubukonje bwo mu kirere hafi y’umuryango byanze bikunze bizahura n’ibibazo bikomeye. Ikibazo cy'ubukonje.